There you are all hot and heavy. Hands groping all over each other. Bodies almost shaking with anticipation..... Then it hits you. What if he/she wants to go down on me?? DON'T PANIC. I can help you out with oral anxiety. It's a real thing that most of the sexually active population suffer from. Yes, I used to be one of them. Surprised?

There's always the fear of "what if". What if I didn't shave or trim? What if I don't know how? What if I find something I've never seen before? Or the dreaded, What if I smell?? Again, DON'T PANIC. The more you freak out and stress over these possibilities the more likely it's going to kill the mood. Relax and let it happen. Yep. Unless you are 100% positive you have an oder issue. In that case just guide their head to another activity.

I'm not one of those girls that enjoy receiving head. I'd rather give it. Yeah, I've heard it A MILLION times.... "You just haven't had it done right", "you haven't had MY skills", "I'm a lesbian so I know how to eat a pussy". Why is it so hard for people to grasp the concept I'm not one of the MANY women that don't really care for it?? I've talked about it on my show a bunch of times. If you're just gonna use your tongue and mouth, you're wasting your time. If you'd like to actually please me, you're going to have to get your fingers and/or a toy(s) involved. I'll never request someone to eat my pussy. If you are dead set on doing it, I probably won't stop you, but if I'm getting bored, I will. Without hesitation. If you're annoying about it and if you get pushy, I'll let you give it a go, but don't get all butt hurt when I push your head away and tell you exactly what I think about your performance.

Most girls and guys enjoy someone else going to town on their crotch candy ( ya like that? Vulgar as hell, isn't it? ) It can be absolutely mind blowing. I always practice what I preach. Anything worth doing is worth doing right. Keep up your studies!! The more you do it the better you get at it. Don't stick to one person. You'll get what they like down pat, but that might not be what rolls someone else's eyes back into their head. Ask your friends. I'm sure they'd be more than happy to share what they know with you. Read articles and books about technique. There is no shame in trying to step up your game. Find out what people say they like and dislike. You'll be fine as long as you remember to relax and practice! *and keep up proper hygiene. Here are a couple of articles to get you started

http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/the-best-oral-sex-of-her-life

http://www.yourtango.com/experts/curvy-girl-chrystal-bougon/guys-7-oral-sex-tips-will-rock-her-world

XXX Kinky Katie.