We've all delt with "Slut Shaming" in our lives, weather it came directly from our mouths or something we overhear. I'd like to share with you some of the many perks of being a female and doing WHAT YOU WANT in your sex life.

1 - It can boost your ego & mood.
Sometimes when you're feeling a bit blue and masturbating just isn't cutting it... Find somebody to knock the bottom outta ya! The release of serotonin will heighten your mood and for a little while, make you forget about the stress in your life.

2 - Variety.
When you treat a group of people like a buffet, you have a better chance at finding something you like. You get to sample what that person has to offer in the bedroom department. You might hit the right one for the time being & have an amazing time. Or, on the other hand, you might get a complete dud and he sucks in bed. You might fancy someone of the same sex... just because. You learn what you LIKE and HOW you like it.

3 - Freedom to experiment.
Is there anything you want to try? Afraid your partner might not be able to look you in the eye the next day? Find your freak of the night (or day). If you KNOW that this is going to be another "in the moment" type of fling, let it go. Don't be scared to bring out the secret weapons if that's what you want to do. Sure, you might catch him off guard, but isn't that the point sometimes? You can get DARK with your desires without being worried about any awkwardness the next day. I'm not saying it's ok to go on a killing spree & have some crazy blood orgy, but you get where I'm going with this. *If you don't... just disregard this suggestion.

4 - No regrets.
If you're not in a committed relationship or have an agreement with your partner, do it up! Who is stopping you? See that guy across the way? Picturing what he can do with those strong hands or trying to imagine what he's packing in those pants? Find out! Make your move. Test the waters and get your feet wet. What's holding you back? You don't have one damn person you need to justify your action to. You do what you want. It's your body and it's your life.
**I have to say this, though. If you get drunk or fucked up and end up screwing someone or several someones.... DON'T CALL WOLF. If you KNOW what you did and you're not happy about it or maybe your friends are giving you shit about it... OWN IT. You did it, you were a willing participant at the time. Don't call rape or ruin someone else's life because YOU aren't happy with the choices YOU made. I'm not saying to keep quiet about it IF IT WAS REALLY A RAPE SITUATION, but don't lie to make yourself appear to be a victim if you're honestly not.

Kinky Katie XXX